Funeral Flowers

There are traditional flowers associated with funerals. These flowers are lilies, roses, carnations, chrysanthemums, and gladioli. Lilies and roses not only look elegantly beautiful but also have a lush fragrance. You will also want to consider the colour of the flowers you select, in addition to the type of flower. White is perhaps the most popular choice for funeral flowers. However, many people wish to take into account the personality of the deceased. Non-traditional ceremonies often include colourful flowers rather than staying with traditional white. Colours, such as yellows and reds, symbolise a celebration of life. If the deceased was renowned for their quirky style or outgoing personality, other flowers may be more appropriate rather than the expected, traditional funeral blooms. Sunflowers and daisies are often chosen as part of funeral bouquets for those wanting something a little different.

When you lose a loved one, understandably, you want to purchase the most beautiful flowers to reflect how much you care. However, the amount you spend on funeral flowers can differ considerably, especially taking into account your relationship with the deceased. The average funeral flowers in the UK cost around £140. This price is most likely to be the amount spent by close family and friends. The price can also differ depending on if you are paying for a floral display creating words, or if you are purchasing a bouquet to place at the graveside. When considering how much to spend, think about your budget. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being realistic about how much you can afford to spend on funeral flowers. Once you have decided on a budget, you can then determine which type of flowers to include in the wreath, floral tribute or bouquet. Funeral bouquets can cost as little as £20 and as much as several hundred pounds.

There are many people that like to follow the traditions associated with funerals. This includes presenting the traditional funeral flowers. It appears that many of these traditions are still followed today, including the type of flowers brought to funerals and presented at the graveside. The most common flowers associated with funerals are lilies. These fragrant flowers have a distinctive scent and are extremely elegant flowers. It is said that the white lily represents purity and innocence. It is also thought that the flower symbolises the soul returning to heaven. White stargazer lilies convey sympathy, making them the perfect flower to gift to friends and family of the deceased. White lilies, in general, also mean majesty. If you are looking for a traditional flower for a funeral, the lily is certainly top of the list.

Each colour of rose has a specific meaning. Typically, white roses are chosen to be part of a funeral bouquet or wreath. However, there are many different colours of rose chosen by others that want to convey a specific message about their relationship with the deceased. Red roses are a romantic gesture, and a widow or widower may want to make these their choice of funeral flower. Yet, red roses don’t always have to symbolise romance. In many communities, it is traditional to give each a single stem red rose to each attendee at a funeral. The attendees will then be asked to, in turn, place the rose onto the funeral casket when it has been lowered into the final resting place. White roses symbolise innocence and pure love and are traditionally presented at the funeral of a young person or child. As pink roses are sometimes given on Mother’s Day, this colour of rose would be appropriate for the funeral of mothers and step-mothers. Dark crimson roses depict great sorrow and grief and are a popular option for funeral bouquets.

Messages on funeral flowers can differ depending on to whom you are sending the flowers and your relationship with the deceased. If the flowers will be placed at the graveside, the message will be a message to the person that has passed. Some people choose to write a short poem on the flower card. This can be a self-penned poem or a verse from a poem that reflects your feelings. Many people use the verse of a favourite song to express their feelings on a funeral flower card. A short note about memories you shared is also a thoughtful idea to include on a funeral flower card. If the flowers are to be given to a member of the deceased’s family or friend group, a short message conveying sympathy and support would be appropriate. When the family of the deceased is religious, some people prefer to write a short prayer on the card rather than a poem. Should you be attending the funeral of someone who is not a close family member or friend, a sincere note of sympathy and regret is appropriate. If you are uncertain about what to write, a simple “may you rest in peace” is perfectly appropriate.

There are several traditional ways to sign the card on funeral flowers. As the flowers are for a very sensitive occasion, you will most likely be mindful of writing the most appropriate message on the funeral flowers card. To avoid worrying, you can use one of the phrases that convey meaning appropriate for the sad occasion. Gone but never forgotten is a popular sign-off. You will be sorely missed is another frequently used phrase. If the flowers are to be given to the deceased’s family, you may wish to sign the flower card 'our thoughts are with you'. If the family members are religious, you could alter this slightly to 'you are in our prayers'. 'In loving memory' or 'may you rest in peace' are both suitable phrases to use. Other sign-offs you may choose to use include 'rest in peace', 'always in our hearts', or 'always in our memories'. If you want to include a more personal sign-off when presenting flowers to be laid at the deceased’s final resting place, use a phrase that was used by the deceased, or a saying that had special meaning to you both.

Flowers are a traditional and thoughtful way to convey your grief and respect for the bereaved and their family and friends. For centuries, flowers have been used at funerals to convey messages and decorate the venue and final resting place of the deceased. It can undoubtedly feel little awkward taking flowers to the funeral itself. The most classic way to present funeral flowers is by arranging them to be delivered. Funeral flowers can be delivered to the home of the relative organising the funeral, to the funeral home, or to the venue in which the funeral will be taking place. It is usual for the funeral organisers to specify where they would like flowers to be delivered. If you intend to take the flowers to the venue yourself, ensure you arrive early enough to give them to the funeral organiser. The organisers usually take the flowers from everyone that has brought them in person. This is so that they can be arranged the flowers will then be arranged on top of, or around the coffin at the venue. Following the service, the flowers will then be taken ready to be placed at the burial site.

At many funerals, it is traditional for each person in attendance to throw a single-stemmed flower onto the casket after it has been lowered into the ground. You may have witnessed this and even participated, but not be entirely sure why it is done. In the past, it was traditional for immediate family members to take a handful of dirt and throw it onto the lowered casket. However, this tradition has changed for many communities. Now, it is popular for dirt to be replaced by flowers. It is said that the act of throwing dirt, and throwing a flower each symbolise the acknowledgement that the deceased has passed from this life and you are releasing them. Throwing flowers is a more elegant act than throwing dirt, and for many, a less morbid way of committing the deceased to the earth. Family members each throw flowers onto the casket, and then wider family members and other attending mourners. In many cases, the flowers are single-stemmed roses. However, the favourite flower of the deceased may also be used.

Pinning flowers to the lapel of a jacket is normally associated with weddings. As is the wearing of flowers anywhere else on the body, such as in the hair or a wrist corsage. It is very unusual for any mourner to wear flowers at a funeral. Wearing a flower to a funeral may be reminiscent of a wedding and could therefore be deemed inappropriate. The wearing of flowers is usually associated with a celebration. It is therefore easy to see why most people would deem it to be inappropriate. However, it is not unheard of for flowers not to be worn at a funeral. The family of the deceased may request flowers to be worn if flowers, or a particular flower, was loved by the deceased. You should, therefore, only wear flowers on your person at a funeral if has been specifically requested. Family members themselves may want to wear flowers to a funeral, but it is extremely rare.

When buying flowers to send to a funeral, you may want to invest time in finding out the meaning of certain flowers. A funeral is a time to say goodbye to a loved one. This is why many mourners want to select flowers that mean goodbye. There are many flowers that mean farewell. Perhaps the most popular choice is white or yellow chrysanthemums. These are particularly popular for funerals in Asia. White and yellow are common colours for funeral flowers as they symbolise peace, friendship, and loss. Roses are also an appropriate choice of flower to say goodbye. Other flowers that mean farewell are sunflowers, lilies, and orchids. Each flower is beautiful in its own way, and, therefore, it is a personal preference as to which flowers you choose.

You may have noticed that lilies are quite often used at funerals. Lilies can be used in funeral wreaths and service displays. They are also a popular choice for funeral basket displays. The use of lilies at funerals goes back several centuries. The Greeks and Romans associated lilies with purity and innocence. This symbolism is still retained today in many cultures. It is thought by some religious and spiritual communities that in death, people become pure, as their soul departs the earthly existence and begins a new existence on a spiritual plain. This may explain why lilies and their depiction of innocence became a common choice for funerals and memorial services. Lilies are also quite fragrant, emitting a pleasant aroma which adds to the ambience of a funeral or memorial service. Although lilies are a traditional flower for funerals, people also now choose a range of other flowers to adorn the casket and the place of service.

The etiquette for sending funeral flowers and the notes attached can differ depending on the situation. When sending sympathy flowers to a family member or friend, the flowers should be addressed to the recipient. The message can be short, such as “sorry for your loss”, or something longer if you are close to the family member or friend of the deceased. When sending flowers to a funeral, the flowers should be addressed to the deceased. This can be in the form of a note stating 'you will be sadly missed'. “Always in our thoughts” or a message of that ilk. Sending a note addressing the deceased can be an essential part of the grieving process. This message allows you to say goodbye to a loved one. You will therefore want to think about the message you want to send to the departed. Take time to pen a satisfactory goodbye. Should you find it difficult knowing exactly what to write, perhaps find inspiration in a famous poem or song.

It can be difficult to know what to say to the family and friends of the deceased. You may feel awkward and afraid of saying the wrong thing. It is, therefore, helpful to know what is the right thing to say. Firstly, know that it will mean a lot to the family that you have attended the funeral. Knowing that the deceased was loved and appreciated by people can be a great comfort to their family. Even the simplest 'sorry for your loss' will be appreciated by the family. If you knew the person, saying 'He/she/they were a lovely person' is also something the family will remember. There are things that you should avoid saying to people after a funeral. Phrases such as 'They had great innings', or 'at least they are in a much better place' can actually be very insulting and cause upset to the family and friends of the deceased. Stories about the deceased should be saved for the wake if there is one, rather than immediately after the service.

There are a few things that can happen to funeral flowers after the service. The family may decide to take the flowers home immediately after the cremation. They may choose to distribute the flowers among the attending family and friends. Flowers are also often gifted to local charities and hospices. This can be organised by the funeral directors or the family, depending on their preferences. There may be an area where funeral flowers are displayed, and the family may wish for them to be kept there for a period of time. If flowers are left at the cremation site, the staff there will dispose of them after a few days or weeks. These flowers are sometimes composted and used on the grounds of the crematorium. Another idea for using funeral flowers after the cremation is to preserve them. These flowers can be pressed or dried and used to adorn a book of memories or a book of condolences.

These days, all manner of flowers can be used for funerals. Funeral sprays, bouquets and baskets can be created using the favourite flowers of the deceased, flowers that reflect their personality, or more traditional blooms if preferred. However, if you want to find flowers that specifically symbolise the death of a loved one, there are a selection of flowers that do this. Top of the list are lilies. These signify innocence and purity and are said to have been the flowers that adorned the virgin Mary’s final resting place. Should you not wish to use lilies, roses are another popular choice. Red roses symbolise grief and white roses, innocence and purity. You may already be aware that chrysanthemums symbolise sympathy, but what is not widely known is that they also represent home. With this in mind, it is obvious why these flowers would be used at the funerals of loved ones. The hydrangea, although not commonly used at funerals, can be used by the immediate family of the deceased as they represent strong emotions.

There are many types of flower arrangements used at funerals, each having their own name. The flowers that go on top of the coffin are called funeral sprays. They are also sometimes referred to as double-ended sprays or casket sprays. These types of flowers will have been chosen by the deceased’s family and will be the main flowers at the funeral. Usually, an array of flowers are used in funeral sprays, against a backdrop of green foliage. Funeral sprays can differ in size but are normally quite large as they are the focal point on top of the coffin. Funeral sprays can be created in a variety of shapes. However, these flowers are usually shaped in an elongated oval-shaped arrangement. The flowers rest on top of the coffin and can sometimes be the entire length of the casket. Funeral sprays differ in price according to the size and the flowers used to create them.

Flowers provide an elegant way to say goodbye to a friend or relative that has died. If you are looking for flowers that represent death, there is a selection from which to choose. Besides the more traditional flowers like roses, lilies, and chrysanthemums, there are more unusual blooms that represent death. The poppy has been known to be used at memorials and funerals. Red poppies are renowned in the UK for being used to commemorate the death of soldiers in the First and Second World Wars. Therefore, they may be used at the funerals of ex-servicemen and women. The aconitum is another flower that represents death. However, this flower is not recommended, as when ingested, it can be fatal and so should be avoided, especially around young children and animals. A much safer option is the ipomoea. The trumpet-like blooms are reminiscent of angels blowing trumpets, which is perhaps one of the reasons they are associated with death.

When you lose someone you love, flowers are one of the ways in which you can express your grief and love for them. It is common for people in love to exchange flowers during their lives, but which flowers are best to show that you will love the deceased for eternity. Although your first thought may be to use roses, there are actually other flowers that represent eternal love. The orange blossom is a pretty flower that represents eternal love, and they also symbolise innocence and fruitfulness. They can be gifted as a romantic gesture, and also used as funeral flowers when you lose a romantic partner. This fragrant flower, as the name suggests, grows on orange trees. The flower is extremely versatile and is used in many ways. It is used in perfumes and other items as its fragrance is so pleasant. Extracts of the flowers can even be used in foods such as ice cream and puddings. These diminutive flowers are best presented in a bouquet with other flowers as they are so small.

There are lots of different sentiments that mourners wish to convey at funerals. The sense of loss, grief, love, and even the celebration of life, are all feelings that you may want to express via the gift of funeral flowers. If you are searching for the perfect flowers to convey a sense of loss, certain flowers do symbolise this. One of the most popular flowers that mean I miss you are carnations. Carnations are very often used in funeral bouquets and are an affordable option when you want to show how much you miss the deceased. If you would prefer a more exotic flower to portray your loss, the orchid is an excellent option. The orchid is a flower that instantly catches the eye and is considered an elegant bloom to include in funeral flower displays. It is common to have white orchids as funeral flowers rather than other colours available. However, if you think that a splash of colour would be in keeping with the deceased’s personality, then do select the orchids you feel would be most appropriate. Stargazer lilies are yet another flower that conveys that you miss the recently departed. These are very colourful, fragrant flowers that are extremely eye-catching.

When one thinks of lilies, one may immediately reflect on a funeral that you attended that featured these flowers. Many people do associate lilies with funerals, especially the scent and the distinctive look of the blooms. Lilies are often used in casket sprays and other types of funeral flower arrangements. Yet, as lilies are such a beautiful flower, it would be a shame to only allow them to be displayed at such a solemn occasion as a funeral. This is why it is fantastic to learn that lilies are used on many occasions. These flowers are used at weddings, at dinner parties, and are also gifted for occasions such as birthdays and Mother’s Day. As lilies have such a distinctive fragrance, people have been known to purchase them regularly to provide a beautiful scent in their homes. Lilies are not only for funerals and can be gifted for many different events and occasions if you should wish to do so. As with many flowers, lilies can present a danger to animals when their pollen or petals are ingested, so keep lilies away from any pets.

Addressing a card to a funeral home can seem like a daunting task to some. You want to ensure that both the message, and the way in which the card is addressed, is appropriate and fitting for this solemn occasion. The card envelope should be addressed to the family of the deceased. For example 'The Jones Family'. In this way, you are not excluding any family members from your gift of funeral flowers. You can also address the card and flowers to 'The family of (insert name of deceased)'. Following the family name, on the line below put the funeral home’s address. On the card itself, you can then include your note to the family. If your flowers are to be placed at the burial site, address the message in the card to the deceased. Should your message be to the family, include a note such as 'sorry for your loss', or 'My sincerest condolences'.

In some communities, it is custom to hold a “wake” the night before the funeral. It is called a wake as its original intention was to watch or guard the body. The modern wake is held like a vigil. The body will be in the funeral casket and often displays the deceased with the casket left open. Many religious families like to take this time to say prayers around the casket of the deceased. A wake is also a celebration of the life of the deceased. Friends and family will gather to tell stories about the life they shared with the person they have lost. It also gives neighbours and friends to visit the family to give their condolences. There is usually food and beverages provided for those attending the wake. In the morning, after the wake, it is custom for the funeral directors to take the casket from the home and drive past the deceased’s most frequented places in the community. This procession is often advertised so that people can pay their respects as the hearse passes them in the street.

For many people attending a funeral, it can be a struggle to know what to say to someone that has lost someone they love. It is important not to say the wrong thing as you do not want to upset the deceased’s family and friends, nor do you want to embarrass yourself. There are some phrases that you should absolutely not say at a funeral. These phrases may be well-intended but will have the opposite effect. Do not say, “They had good innings”. No matter how old the person is that has died, it is still upsetting for the family that they have lost a loved one. Nor should you say “They are in a better place”. The deceased’s family will probably not find this comforting. The person may have died doing a hobby that they enjoyed, but you shouldn’t say “At least they died doing something they loved”. This will not be a consolation to the deceased’s family and friends. “Everything happens for a reason”, is yet another well-intended phrase that is bound to fall flat. Perhaps the worse thing you can do is to not say anything at all. You may not know how to handle this situation, but it is insulting to ignore a person’s loss and to avoid acknowledging their loss.

Put simply, the best condolence message is one that is thoughtful and meaningful. If you are close to the family of the deceased or were close to the person that has died, you may want to write a deeply personal condolence message. Although you may be tempted to convey an outpouring of grief, it is best not to make the message too long. A sentence or two about what the person meant to you and how you are so sorry for the family’s loss is quite sufficient. For many people, words don’t come that easily when writing a condolence message. It can be difficult to know exactly what to put on funeral flowers cards, and if you are stuck on what to say, there are some phrases that are appropriate to use. A simple, “I am so sorry for your loss” is perfectly fine and conveys your condolences well. Alternatively, “May they rest in peace” is an appropriate message, especially for families that are religious or are holding a religious service. “Our hearts go out to you at this time of loss” is a sincere message to put on funeral flowers cards. To let someone know they are in your thoughts, simply write, “our thoughts are with you at this difficult time”.

When a co-worker is suffering from bereavement, you will want to let them know that their colleagues are thinking of them at this time. If you are planning to send one gift of funeral flowers from the entire office or workplace, it would be usual to include just one message from you all. Each signing a separate message is reminiscent of birthday card giving at work, and would not be an appropriate way to sign funeral flowers. Instead, decide on one message from you all that conveys your support and condolences from all the co-workers. A message such as “We are very sorry for your loss, and send our deepest sympathies” is an appropriate message. If a co-worker has died and you are sending flowers to their family, sign the card and flowers with a message like, “(name) was a delight to work with and will be very much missed.” Other appropriate messages include, “You are in our thoughts at this sad time”, and “wishing you peace at this difficult time”. If you worked closely with a co-worker that has died, you may be feeling especially saddened by their death. However, it is important to remember that your co-worker's family will be very sad about their loss and therefore your message should not be self-indulgent. Keep the condolence messages short, and heartfelt.

If you are at a loss for what to include in a sympathy message, there are some rules of thumb to abide by. The first being, keep the message short. The bereaved will be very grateful for your message but may not want to read through long messages. Succinct messages are best in these situations. It is also important to concentrate on the family’s loss rather than your own if you knew the deceased. Although the same sympathy messages are used, again and again, they can still convey your condolences appropriately. Therefore, don’t worry if you believe the message you include will be used by others that are sharing their sympathies. Even a simple, “I am sorry for your loss”, is an appropriate message to include in a sympathy card and flowers. A short poem would also be appropriate, especially if you don’t know how to say what you are feeling, and a poem can do so perfectly. Phrases such as, “We are so sorry for your loss”, and “Our deepest sympathies at this sad time”, are both appropriate messages to include.

When selecting flowers to send to the family and friends of the bereaved, you may want to know which flowers are the most appropriate to send. It is the same when choosing which flowers to include if you are arranging the funeral flowers for the service. Carnations are a popular flower to include at funerals. You may have believed this to be because they are affordable, but there are other reasons why carnations have become popular funeral flowers. The white carnation is the most appropriate as it symbolises death, grief, love, and loyalty. White carnations also depict deep sorrow and respect. Carnations are very pretty flowers and are perfect for wreaths and funeral sprays. Carnations are also a very affordable option, allowing you to include more and to opt for larger funeral displays. White carnations are stunning and portray the feelings of innocence and rebirth perfectly. White carnations are readily available in our collection and at a great price.

A funeral spray is placed on top of the coffin during the service. These flowers are an elegant display that show respect for the deceased. The prices of funeral sprays can differ greatly. The cost will depend on the flowers used, the size of the display, and the finished arrangement required. In the UK, a spray of funeral flowers usually costs between £100 and £350. Larger sprays can cost considerably more, especially if they contain more expensive flowers. However, you can make huge savings by purchasing funeral sprays from our collection. To save money on funeral sprays, select flowers that cost less such as carnations. When including more exotic flowers such as orchids, you can expect to pay more. You should be able to find funerals sprays suited to your budget among our collection.

Wearing black to a funeral has been a custom in western countries and America for many years. The choice of colour reflects different meanings. Wearing black is a sign of respect to the deceased. Black is also a colour associated with mourning. In years gone by, widows were expected to wear black for up to a year after their husband had died, and not just at the funeral. The royal family follow a similar protocol now by wearing black for a period of time after a member of the family has died, to symbolise a mourning period. The wearing of black at funerals may well have stemmed from the tradition of wearing black for a mourning period. However, that period of time has decreased significantly, resulting in mourners wearing black just for the funeral, rather than for several months after a death. In modern times, some families request that mourners wear the favourite colour of the deceased, or to attend the funeral in colourful clothes rather than black. The wearing of brightly coloured clothing should only be adhered to at the request of the family, or if the deceased requested this themselves before their death. Otherwise, mourners are expected to wear black at most western funerals.

The most expensive flower in the world is actually priceless. The kadupul flower, native to Sri Lanka, is so rare and delicate that it lasts just mere hours. The flower blooms at night before perishing at dawn. This short lifespan makes it a very impractical flower to want to possess. Fortunately, there are other beautiful flowers that, although expensive, last a lot longer than the kadupul! The most expensive flower available to buy is the artificially created, Shenzhen Nongke Orchid, which can fetch up to £160,000. The Gold of Kinabalu Orchid is yet another eye-wateringly expensive flower whose stems sell for £3000 each. This rare flower is an endangered species of orchid that is heavily protected and only blooms between April and May. Thankfully, there is no need to spend such outrageous amounts on beautiful flowers when you shop at our store. We provide flowers for all manner of budgets.

The colour most associated with saying goodbye is black. It can be very difficult to find flowers that are naturally black should you be considering them for a funeral. However, there are roses that appear to be black that are actually deep, dark red or purple. These “black” roses are very popular flowers to include at funerals and memorial ceremonies. The fact that black represents saying goodbye also explains why most people were black when attending a funeral. Conversely, white is also associated with saying goodbye. In some cultures, mourners wear white, not black, when in mourning and when attending a funeral. White flowers are also used at funerals to say a final goodbye. White roses are perhaps one of the most popular choices of flower for a funeral, especially at the funeral of a child or a young adult. In addition to symbolising saying goodbye, white flowers signify innocence and purity. Therefore, the two contrasting shades of white and black both symbolise goodbye.

After the funeral, mourners are known to leave flowers at the graveside of a loved one they have lost. This is especially true of family members of the deceased. You may be wondering which flowers are the best to leave by the graveside. Some people prefer to leave potted plants, rather than loose flowers at a graveside. These can be placed close to the head stone and can remain for several years if tended to appropriately. If you prefer to leave flowers rather than a potted plant, there are a range of blooms that are significant to mourning and the loss of a loved one. The camellia means love and devotion and can be quite fitting to leave at the graveside of a spouse that has died. Lilies are a popular choice as they are beautiful, fragrant, and filled with meaning. The lily symbolises purity and beauty and is a striking flower to leave at a graveside. When leaving flowers at the graveside, consider investing in a pot that can be fixed to the ground that allows you to place separate stems into the display.

The most popular colour of flower to give to the bereaved is white. White flowers are elegant and symbolise purity, innocence and loss. White flowers are especially appropriate for the death of a child. However, they can be given at any funeral, regardless of the age of the deceased. In some instances, it is preferred that deep red roses are included at funerals. Dark red roses symbolise passion and deep love and are fitting for a deceased spouse or partner to present at a funeral. There are instances when brightly coloured flowers would be appropriate. If the deceased was known as an outgoing, bubbly person, you may want to send flowers that reflect that. The sunshine yellow of sunflowers may be appropriate in these instances. Red poppies are appropriate for a deceased serviceman or servicewoman as these are associated with the military.

When sending funeral flowers, you may be concerned that you are following the correct etiquette. One of the things you may have concerns about is how to appropriately sign funeral flower cards. If sending flowers from yourself, then do sign off with your first and last names. If you are sending flowers from yourself and your partner, put both of your names. Should you be sending flowers as a family, sign it from your family as in 'from the (insert family name) family'. When sending flowers from a group of colleagues, it is best not to sign all your names. Besides the fact there will probably not be enough space on the card for you all to sign individually, it also makes the flower card appear messy. In this instance, sign off with something like 'from all of us at (company name)'. Ensure your signature is legible and that it is clear who is sending the flowers. It is important that you make it clear whom the flowers are for also as there may be other funerals taking place for people with the same or similar name as the deceased.

At such an emotional time, it can be difficult to know what to write on the funeral flowers card. Rather than worry about writing the correct thing, read our tips on what to write. Messages should be kept short yet can still be personal if you knew the deceased well. If you find it difficult to convey your feelings, consider using a short verse of an appropriate poem. You may wish to write your own short poem if you are feeling confident enough to do so. If the deceased and their family are religious, an extract from the appropriate religious text would be a thoughtful way to include a message. Should you want to convey your sympathies in a succinct way, there are several phrases you can use. 'Sorry for your loss', 'our sincerest condolences', and 'Sent with our deepest sympathies', are each appropriate phrases to use on the card for funeral flowers. Other things to write include 'He/she/they will be missed', and 'May they rest in peace'. Remember to address the card to the family of the deceased and to sign off with your name so they know exactly who is sending the flowers.

There are many different ways to say goodbye at a funeral. Different cultures have varying customs, and it is, therefore, worth researching the funeral, if you are not familiar with the customs of the deceased and their family. In western cultures, there may be opportunities to approach the casket itself after the ceremony to say a quiet goodbye. If a wake is held the night before the funeral, there may be an opportunity to say goodbye when the casket is displayed. The final goodbye usually takes place at the graveside. It is a tradition at many funerals to throw a single-stemmed flower into the grave after the casket has been lowered. The family will do this first before the other mourners are invited to throw their flowers. This is a symbolic way of saying goodbye. Singing at the service is another way in which to say goodbye. Religious services usually include songs as part of the funeral allowing mourners to say goodbye creatively.

Funerals are a time of respectful mourning, and everything in your power should be done to avoid doing or saying the wrong thing. Firstly, you should be dressed appropriately. This means wearing black if it is expected. This also means not wearing shorts and being appropriately covered, especially if the service is in a religious setting. Secondly, you should arrive promptly and not enter after the service has begun. Mourners may be asked to attend the house of the deceased prior to the funeral before then making their way to the place where the service will take place. Make sure you know where you are expected to attend and set off early to avoid the prospect of being late. Ensure your mobile is turned off or set to silent. A ringing or vibrating mobile is very disrespectful during a funeral service. Do not take pictures without express permission, and do not post the pictures online unless you have the permission of the family.

Knowing what to wear to a funeral can be a conundrum for some. However, it is still tradition to wear all black when attending a funeral. Yet, rules for this kind of etiquette have certainly eased in the past decade or so. Should you not have all black clothing, it is perfectly acceptable to wear clothes that are mostly black. This is especially true if you never wear black clothing and cannot afford to purchase black clothing that you wouldn’t wear again. If you don’t have any black clothes, you may wear dark coloured clothing, as this will still be considered respectful. It would be inappropriate to wear something very colourful unless the family has expressed that they wish mourners to wear the deceased’s favourite colour or colourful clothing. If you are uncertain, ask the family what they would prefer. If it has not been specifically announced what is expected then wearing all black or dark clothing would be sensible.

There are many ways in which you can express your deepest condolences. The most obvious way is to say exactly that, be it in person or on a card. Flowers are a wonderful, traditional way in which to express your condolences. Sympathy flowers can be sent to the home of the family of the deceased to show that you are thinking of them at this sad time. You can also send flowers to the funeral home for the funeral. When sending flowers, you can express your condolences in a message on the card. If you would prefer, you can use other phrases to show how you feel. “I am so sorry for your loss”, “our deepest sympathies”, and “may they rest in peace”, are just a few of the phrases you can use to show your deepest condolences. When addressing someone in person, it can be strange to say deepest condolences. You may want to put this in your own words in a way that sounds more natural to you.

When you want to order flowers for a funeral, there is a variety of ways in which you can do this. You can go in person to a florist and place your order there. The florist should be able to show you a sample of the types of funeral flowers they create. You can then give the florist all the details of the funeral, including where they need to be delivered. Alternatively, you can order funeral flowers online. This is a very convenient way in which to order funeral flowers. The online florist will showcase their collection of funeral flowers, and you are free to make your selection. The delivery and payment details will be requested at checkout. Should you prefer, you can also telephone to place an order. All the details will be taken, and the flowers delivered to your preferred address.

When a colleague is attending a funeral, you should acknowledge this in an appropriate way. Although you may have a jovial relationship in the workplace, this is not the time to use humour. It is likely that your colleague will have been close to the deceased. Therefore, express how you are sorry for their loss so they know a work environment is a place they can show that they may be feeling sad for a period of time. Make sure they know that they don’t need to worry about work and that they needn’t rush back in. This can help your colleagues' mental health tremendously and will ease any pressure they may feel to not take time away from work. You can acknowledge their loss by saying 'I’m sorry to hear about your loss' or 'You will be in my thoughts today'. The saying, actions speak louder than words, is very true, and in this situation should be followed. Ask your colleague if they need a lift to the funeral, or if there is anything else you can do to help. Let them know that if they want to talk, you are available to listen.

Attending a funeral can be a lonely experience. If you know someone attending a funeral that is feeling on edge about doing so, a friendly text can offer some reassurance. Let them know that you are thinking of them, and you are there for them, should they need anything. If you are texting because you can’t attend the funeral, do let them know that you wish you could be there for them in their time of need. In this situation, you should also send a card or flowers to the funeral as you can’t attend in person. This is much more considerate than sending a text to inform them that you can’t attend. When sending a text of reassurance, make sure you know what time the funeral begins. This is so you can avoid sending a text when the service has started. The person may have forgotten to turn off their phone, and it would be extremely inappropriate for them to receive a text during the funeral.

The loss of a parent is one of the most devastating things that can happen to a person. This loss is felt deeply, no matter how old the parent was or if the death was sudden or expected. Therefore, it can be difficult to know what to say to a friend that has recently lost their parent. However, it is important to know that not acknowledging the death is worse than potentially saying the wrong thing. There are some phrases you can use to avoid saying the wrong thing. Tell your friend that you are very sorry for their loss. Tell them that if they ever want to talk, you are there for them. Ask if there is anything you can do and be proactive. Cook meals for them and just be there with them if they don’t want to be alone. One of the best things you can do is to listen and allow them to express their emotions when they need to.

Losing a parent is devastating and it may feel like there are no words to express how sorry you are for a person’s loss. It can be especially difficult, if you haven’t experienced this loss yourself. Knowing the appropriate condolence message to send can be a little confusing. Here are some suggestions on how best to show your sympathy and what to say. Sending flowers is a thoughtful gesture and can express your sympathy without you needing to say very much. When sending sympathy flowers to a friend that has lost their father, there are messages you can send that will let them know that you are thinking of them. Tell them that you are extremely sorry for their loss. Let them know that they are in your thoughts, and in your prayers too if this is appropriate. Convey that you are there for them at this sad time. If it is a work colleague that has suffered the loss of their father, write 'deepest sympathies for your loss' or 'we are very sorry for the loss of your father'.

Being the one to tell someone that their family or a family member has died is a huge responsibility. It is essential that you do it in the correct way. Make sure that you can speak privately and that they are somewhere comfortable. Speak slowly and clearly, making sure that they can hear exactly what you have to say. Prepare them by telling them that you have some very bad news to deliver. Avoid using euphemisms such as “gone” or passed” instead of being clear that their loved one has died. This is very important when telling a child that their family member has died. It is also important to speak slowly and clearly when addressing someone who has learning difficulties, dementia or whose first language is not English. It is best to deliver the information in clear, small chunks as hearing this devastating news may make it difficult to understand what has happened. Check that they have understood what you have told them. Allow them to ask questions and answer them as appropriately and honestly as possible with the information you have.

We are an online florist that delivers flowers all over the UK. Using a dependable courier service, we provide very fast flower delivery services in the UK. This includes next day flower delivery. You may need flowers delivered in a hurry, and we can ensure this happens. Our florists provide a number of different delivery options, including next day and same day flower delivery. It is easy to book next day delivery via our site. Simply select this option when making your purchase. To make sure your flowers arrive when they need to, place your order as early in the day as possible. Bookings made before a certain time will ensure your flowers are delivered the next day. Should you need any assistance with your order at any point, our customer care team will be happy to help in any way they can.

There are certain flowers that are usually used in sympathy arrangements. This is because these flowers symbolise elements specific to death, loss and love. The most popular flowers to use are lilies. These fragrant blooms are elegant flowers that are associated with purity and rebirth. Roses are also a popular choice of sympathy flower. Roses symbolise love, devotion and remembrance. Third on the list are carnations. These pretty flowers are associated with purity, especially when white carnations are used. Next on the list of most popular flowers used in sympathy arrangements is the statice. The statice signifies remembrance and is used in both fresh bouquets and dried floral arrangements. Last but not least, are gladiolas which appearance is similar to that of the lily.

It is common to send sympathy flowers to the home of the family of the deceased. Sympathy flowers show the family that they are in your thoughts. A gift of flowers can remind them how loved the deceased was. It will also show them that they too are loved and that they have people around them that care. Sympathy flowers are particularly appropriate if you knew the deceased person well or know their family well. The flowers should be sent as soon as possible on hearing the news of the death. You may want to send a bouquet of the deceased’s favourite flowers. If you want to send traditional flowers, roses and carnations are among the appropriate choices. Funeral flowers are sent to the funeral home, rather than the family home. These can be sent even if you weren’t close to the deceased or their family.

When a family member or spouse dies, organising the funeral can become overwhelming. Therefore, choosing the appropriate flowers may not come easy to you. As a reputable and experienced florist, we can help you select the perfect funeral flowers for your loved one’s final goodbye. There is a selection of traditional funeral flowers from which you can choose, such as white roses, white lilies, and white carnations. We can show you the traditional funeral sprays and arrangements to make the process simpler for you. Our site reveals many popular floral arrangements from which to choose. We can also create bespoke funeral sprays should you want specific flowers and designs included at the funeral. Our team provide a professional, sensitive service to assist you at this sad time. Should you need any further information or advice, get in touch. Our team will be happy to help you in any way we can.

When paying your respects at the funeral of a friend or relative, it is customary to send a wreath. It will be delivered to the funeral home in preparation for the funeral service. The wreath will then be placed in the hearse and transported to the place where the service will take place. Afterwards, the wreath may be laid at the graveside. The cost of funeral wreaths can differ. The price will depend on the flowers you want to use and the size of the funeral wreath. In the UK, the average price of a funeral wreath is between £30 and £80. We provide excellent deals on funeral wreaths. Our florists provide a range of flowers and designs from which to choose.

There may be some people that believe it is bad luck to bring flowers home from a funeral. It could even be considered to be the height of bad manners. However, this is not true. In some circumstances, too many flowers may be gifted to the deceased. This can overwhelm the funeral homes capacity for flowers. In these cases, friends and family of the deceased may be asked to take some flowers home. Yet, you should not take flowers from a funeral unless you are expressly requested to do so. In most circumstances, the funeral director will discuss it with the family first. Attendees will then be approached to take flowers home after the funeral.

When sending flowers to a funeral service, you will want to know what flowers are the most appropriate. Although black is a colour very much associated with death, it is difficult to find pure black flowers. Deep red roses are often used in funeral sprays and wreaths. White roses are also common flowers to include in funeral floral displays. Pink carnations are a popular option as they signify remembrance. White carnations signify pure love. These will therefore often be used in funeral flower arrangements. In some circumstances, it may be fitting to include the deceased’s favourite colour or favourite flower. In these instances, the family of the deceased will request that mourners send that colour of flower to the funeral.

There is a certain etiquette when sending flowers to the funeral home and the home of the family of the deceased. It can be difficult to know how to address the flowers you send. When addressing flowers to the funeral home, ensure you include the name and family name of the deceased. If you are sending sympathy flowers to the family home, address the flowers to the entire family of the deceased. Doing this ensures that no family member feels left out. You can address the flowers directly to the deceased in the attached message. You can then write a heartfelt message to the deceased as a final goodbye. It is important to include the family name in the actual address, however, as just a first name can be confusing. This is because there may be more than one person of that name receiving service via that funeral home.

Flowers are a thoughtful gesture when a friend or colleague loses a loved one. You may be concerned about which flowers to send. Different cultures have different traditions. Christian cultures encourage the gifting of condolence flowers, as do other religions and cultures. In these instances, there are specific flowers that hold certain meanings that would be appropriate to send. Lilies are a popular choice as they symbolise sympathy, among other things. Roses mean love and are therefore appropriate if you are close to the bereaved or the deceased. Carnations are often included in sympathy bouquets. Carnations are associated with love. These flowers are also said to symbolise motherly love.

Usually, the funeral home will organise the funeral flowers received. The flowers will be placed at the graveside after they have been displayed at the service. However, there are times when there is an excess of funeral flowers. In these instances, mourners and family members of the deceased may be asked to bring the flowers home. There are many uses for funeral flowers after the funeral. Some of the flowers can be pressed within the pages of a book of condolences. The flowers can be taken home to be left at the graveside at a later date. Some people make homemade potpourri from the excess flowers. Alternatively, the flowers may be donated to the place where the service took place or to family and friends.

When you need to order funeral flowers, it is best to use a trusted florist. A funeral is a very solemn occasion, and you will therefore want to be able to rely on the florist you employ. Our funeral flowers are beautifully arranged, and you can rely on our team to ensure you get the flowers you want. To arrange funeral flowers, you can select flowers from our online collection. You can present them as they are, or re-arrange the flowers should you wish to do so. Alternatively, you can get in touch with our team to discuss your individual needs. We are here to make the process as easy as possible.

When you are unused to buying flowers, especially from an online retailer, you may think that flowers are beyond your budget. However, our beautiful flowers are extremely affordable. Some other florists may charge premium prices for bouquets. This may be why you presume flowers are expensive. However, when you visit our online flower shop, you will soon realise that we aren’t like other florists. Our bouquets and arrangements have been created by very talented florists. These florists have been selected because of their expertise and qualifications. By only using the best florists in the region, we ensure customers receive the most beautiful flowers and at fantastic prices. So, before you dismiss buying flowers because you think they are too expensive for your tastes, check out our range of discounted blooms.

The colour most associated with death is black. However, it can be difficult to source truly black flowers. Some roses are a deep purple however that are often referred to as black roses. These roses are elegant and ideal for inclusion at funerals. Deep red roses are also often chosen for funeral wreaths and sprays. Red roses are associated with a deep and passionate love and family members can choose to include these flowers for that reason. Yet, white roses symbolise innocence and rebirth and so are also an appropriate colour flower to include in funeral flowers. Should the funeral be non-traditional, family members may wish to include more vibrantly coloured roses in the displays. For example, if the family want to convey the deceased’s sunny disposition, they may include yellow roses. If the deceased preferred the colour pink or died at a young age, pink roses may be appropriate.

The colour yellow represents hope and cheerfulness. It may, therefore, be an unusual concept to include yellow flowers at a funeral. However, many see funerals as a time to celebrate the life of the deceased. Yellow roses also symbolise friendship. With these meanings in mind, it is clear why yellow flowers may be included at a funeral. Yellow roses are especially pertinent as roses also symbolise love. Yellow flowers add meaning to a funeral bouquet and don’t have to be the only colour of flower in a funeral bouquet or funeral spray. We provide a fantastic selection of yellow flowers that are suitable for inclusion in funeral flower displays. Visit our online shop to discover the entire range.

Different types of floral displays can be included at a funeral service. These include wreaths that are usually displayed at the bottom or by the side of the coffin and bouquets that are placed at the graveside. The flowers that lay on top of the coffin are referred to as coffin sprays. Coffin sprays, as the name suggests, appear to be a spray of flowers. The beautiful display of flowers is the main floral tribute at a funeral. Coffin sprays incorporate green foliage and flowers to create a central focus piece that adorns the coffin. These sprays can be purchased in various sizes. It is the family that chooses the coffin spray. These flowers can also be referred to as casket sprays or double ended sprays.

Some traditions have been left behind in recent years. Yet, it appears that one particular tradition is making a return. This is the placing of a wreath on your door in the event of a person’s death. A wreath is a circular arrangement of flowers and foliage. You may have seen wreaths at funerals but not be aware that they can also be hung on the doors of family members of the deceased. Placing a funeral wreath on your door makes the community aware that you have recently lost someone you loved. Doing so alerts neighbours that you are in a period of mourning and therefore be sensitive to this fact. It can also encourage the community to reach out to you at this sad time. This can result in receiving home-cooked meals when you are too immersed in grief to cook for yourself and general acts of kindness to help you through this upsetting period.

Funeral etiquette refers to the rules and traditions associated with different aspects of funerals. This can include what flowers to send to the family of the deceased. It may also include the appropriate things to say at a funeral, what to wear, and how to behave. Where flowers are concerned, there are certain things to take into account before sending flowers. For example, be mindful of the religion and customs of the family of the deceased. Flowers in the shape of a crucifix, for example, should not be sent to non-Christian families. Certain religions do not usually include flowers in their funeral ceremonies. These religions, include Islam and Judaism. In the Jewish faith, there is a period of mourning known as Shiva, and flowers should not be sent during this time.

The flowers that are placed on the casket are known as coffin sprays. It is custom for the family to select the funeral sprays. Attending mourners that wish to gift flowers do not usually place them in the coffin. This should only be done if the family specifically requests it. If you are organising the funeral of a family member, you can order coffin sprays to be placed on the coffin. Coffin sprays are available in a variety of sizes and styles. Should you wish to order coffin sprays, get in touch with us today. Our team will discuss your requests and can advise with respect to the types of flowers that can be included in the coffin sprays. We will also design a coffin spray that suits your budget.

Flowers can be sent to either the wake or to the funeral. When flowers are sent to the family home of the deceased, make sure they are sent in good time for the funeral. The funeral will usually take place the day after the viewing or wake. In most circumstances, the funeral organisers will collect all the flowers that have been sent, and place them in the hearse. The flowers will then be transported to the place of service. However, mourners usually send flowers to the funeral home to avoid the family needing to collect and organise flowers that have been sent to their home. Sympathy flowers can be sent directly to the family home of the deceased. When sending flowers to the funeral home, ensure you include the full name of the family. This ensures the funeral director knows which funeral the flowers are for.

The amount you spend on funeral flowers is a personal choice. The family of the deceased will usually spend the most on funeral flowers. This is because they may wish to include coffin sprays, wreaths and word tributes. In the UK, the average cost of funeral flowers can be between £30 and £200. If you are attending a funeral as a friend or colleague of the deceased, you will probably not spend as much on flowers. A bouquet or wreath would be a perfectly respectable gesture. Even the lowest of budgets can be accommodated when purchasing funeral flowers from Funeral Flowers. Our funeral flowers collection provides many different choices and prices. You will find our collection extremely affordable.

Deciding who pays for funeral flowers depends on the type of flowers bought. Casket or coffin flowers are bought by the immediate family of the deceased. This can be the spouse, children, parents, or siblings of the deceased. It is respectful to ensure that the closest family members have their flowers placed the closest to the casket. Close friends and other family members may wish to pay for a wreath. Other mourners would be expected to buy funeral bouquets, rather than a wreath. Word tributes that spell the name of the deceased or the relationship between the deceased and the person purchasing them would only be bought by close family members. If you are unsure as to what flowers to purchase, contact the funeral home. Alternatively, contact our team, and we can assure you of the correct etiquette.

Attending a funeral can be a stressful time. Alleviate some of the stress by knowing what colour of the flower is most appropriate for a funeral. Although black is the colour most associated with funerals, black flowers are difficult to source. Yet, there is a particular colour of rose that appears to be black. Although these roses are referred to as being black, they are in fact deep red or even dark purple. It isn’t necessary to have black flowers at a funeral, however. Dark red roses are often used in funeral sprays and wreaths. This is because they represent everlasting love. White flowers are said to symbolise new beginnings and innocence. Again, this is why you will see white flowers such as roses and lilies used in funeral flower displays.

Each flower has at least one meaning. It is therefore sensible to presume that there are flowers that represent death. In European countries, the chrysanthemum has long been associated with death. You will often find these blooms incorporated in funeral flowers and sprays. The red poppy is a flower associated specifically with the death of soldiers. It is used in commemorative wreaths and buttonholes on the anniversary of wars such as World War I and World War II. It is thought that the poppy has been chosen to represent death as it is a very resilient flower that grows even in war-torn environments where the soil has been damaged. In South America, yellow flowers are associated with death. They are often used in Day of the Dead graveside tributes and displays.

Roses have long been present in funeral flowers. Should you be wondering which colour roses are most suitable for funerals, there are a few to choose from. Red roses are often associated with romantic occasions such as Valentine’s Day and wedding anniversaries. However, red roses are also appropriate for funerals. This colour of rose symbolises not only passion but deep, everlasting love. Red roses also signify respect and courage. Dark crimson roses are believed to show great grief and sorrow. White roses signify purity and innocence. Many see death as a new beginning with a person’s pure soul being transported to the afterlife. The white rose is therefore the perfect flower to choose if the deceased or their family hold this belief.

Lillies have been associated with death for centuries. Images of lilies were even discovered at gravesides in ancient Crete. Today, the mere scent of a lily can make one think of funerals. But why is this beautiful flower associated so strongly with death? Lilies have many meanings. One of the meanings of lilies is of being transported to the afterlife. Lilies are also said to symbolise the renewal of innocence. It is said that the fragrance of a lily can have a calming effect, evoking a sense of peace and tranquillity. The combination of the meanings and the relaxing aroma makes lilies an extremely appropriate flower to include at funerals.

In Western cultures, wearing red at a funeral is a sign of disrespect. Unless, of course, mourners have been requested by the family to wear read. If not, then avoid red at all costs! Yet, in some cultures, such as the Ghanian culture, the family of the deceased will wear red. It is believed that by wearing red the family are expressing their deep sense of loss. However, although red is a no-no with regards to funeral attire in a lot of cultures, it is a popular choice of colour when it comes to flowers. Red roses are especially recommended to include in funeral sprays and floral arrangements. This is because red roses symbolise deep, everlasting love.

Should you have happened upon a black wreath on a door, you may be curious as to what it means. Wreaths on doors are usually associated with celebrations. You are most likely to see wreaths on doors at Christmas time or even in spring, summer or autumn. These wreaths symbolise a celebration of changing seasons or of the festive period. A black wreath is something entirely different, however. A black wreath of flowers is a sign that the household is in mourning. It may be a member of the household that has died or a relative of the person living in the home with the wreath on the door. The wreath alerts the community of this fact. It expresses the family’s wish to let their mourning be known and allows neighbours to be respectful at this sad time.

Many take it for granted that when someone dies, flowers will be left at their graveside. On the anniversary of a death or a special occasion, flowers are also left in a person’s grave. However, how did this custom begin, and why do we leave flowers on a grave? The leaving of flowers at a grave is seen as a sign of respect. It is a way to quietly show that you cared for the person that has died. Flowers are also biodegradable, and therefore don’t inflict any harm onto the environment as they decay. For centuries, certain cultures have left gifts at the graveside of those they have lost in the hope that these gifts would be received and taken to the afterlife. Now, these gifts have taken on more symbolic meaning, and flowers provide the perfect gesture. Flowers are also a way to maintain the upkeep of a grave. By regularly decorating the graveside with floral arrangements, you are showing how much you care for the deceased.

In many cultures, the casket is displayed before the funeral service. This can be in the form of a wake or a viewing. These viewings sometimes happen in the home of the deceased, or at the home of the deceased’s family. It is a sign of respect to attending a viewing or wake. Family and friends will gather to share stories about their time with the deceased. When attending a viewing, it is customary to bring flowers, or even a single flower, as a sign of respect. These flowers can then be included in the funeral service. Alternatively, the flowers you bring maybe sympathy flowers, and for the host to display in their homes. If you wish for flowers to be included in the funeral service, it would be advisable to send them directly to the funeral home.

It is understandable to feel a little awkward or nervous about what to say to someone who has recently lost someone they love. In Christian communities, it is customary for mourners at a funeral to shake the hands of the deceased family, and to say “sorry for your loss”. However, if you feel like this phrase is too cliched, there are other phrases you can use. Some people prefer to say, “I am here for you”. Others say, “I am so sorry. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.” If you knew the deceased well, saying something about your time together can provide comfort to their family. Something like, “She was a lovely person. She will be missed so much” is a perfectly acceptable thing to say. To avoid sounding cliché, think about how you truly feel as heartfelt words are often so much better than overused phrases.

There are certain dos and don’ts when it comes to funeral flowers. For example, some funeral displays should only be purchased and presented at the funeral by the immediate family of the deceased. Flowers such as casket or coffin sprays should be bought by the immediate family. It would be highly inappropriate for anyone who isn’t extremely close to the deceased to send a coffin spray to a funeral. This is because, the closer the family member is, the closer the flowers are to the casket. It would also be highly unusual for a non-family member, or very close friend to purchase floral letter tributes for the funeral. If you are attending a funeral, funeral bouquets and wreaths are the perfect gestures to send to the funeral home. If you are in any doubt as to which flowers you should send to a funeral, get in touch with our team. We can help you select the ideal funeral flowers for your needs.

When attending a funeral, it is important to be respectful. It is also important to research the customs and cultures of the family of the deceased. At any funeral, it is expected that both men and women should dress appropriately. This can mean dressing in such a way as to not draw unwanted attention. In some religions, it is important to keep legs and arms covered, be you a man or a woman, when entering a place of worship. In some instances, you will be expected to remove your shoes. This is worth keeping in mind if you aren’t particularly fond of your feet! Rules like these can determine what types of clothing you choose to wear, including deciding whether to go barefoot or wear socks. Headwear should also be considered. In some places of worship, women are expected to cover their hair with a headscarf. If you are uncertain about what clothing will be considered appropriate, contact the funeral home or venue where the funeral will be taking place.

The cost of a funeral can differ dramatically depending on many different factors, including the location. London is notoriously expensive, and the cost of a funeral in the capital can be very different compared with funerals in other parts of the country. Factors that need to be taken into account when budgeting for a funeral can include the type and size of flowers included, the type of casket or urn, the post-funeral buffet, and the cost of the funeral directors. You will also need to consider transport, the cost of burial, or cremation costs, and the price of the headstone. In the UK, the average cost of a cremation is almost £4000, and the price of a funeral is almost £5000. In London, you can expect the price to be even higher than the average funeral in the UK. This is why it is important to save money wherever possible, without compromising the quality of the goods purchased. We provide exceptional funeral flowers at reasonable prices. Browse our funeral flowers collection to find out more.

A funeral is a time to be respectful. You will therefore want to wear the most appropriate clothing. Although it would appear to be commonsense as to what not to wear, it is surprising what clothes some people choose to wear to funerals. Athletic wear should not be worn at a funeral. This kind of clothing is very casual, and wearing them at a funeral would be disrespectful. Any clothes that are going to make you uncomfortable or likely to fidget shouldn’t be worn. This includes short skirts, tight clothing, or low-cut tops. Bright, colourful clothing shouldn’t be worn unless expressly requested by the deceased’s family. Opt for black or dark clothing. Anything that is designed to attract a lot of attention should be avoided.

A viewing tends to be an unstructured, informal event that differs from the atmosphere of a funeral. Although a viewing may have a beginning and ending time, the length you stay is not specific. Viewings are primarily for friends and family of the deceased. However, this doesn’t mean that neighbours and colleagues can’t attend as well. Yet, your relationship with the deceased and their family can determine how long you stay at a viewing. If you want to pay your respects to the family, it would be acceptable to pop in with flowers and share your condolences. If offered a drink and some food, it would be polite to accept. Even family and friends can outstay their welcome, and so if an end time has been stipulated, don’t stay longer unless expressly asked to by the host. Viewings usually occur the day before the funeral, and the host will need to be well-rested before the funeral. Therefore, ensure you don’t stay too late unless you are helping to clear up after the viewing.

Casket sprays are the flowers that lie on top of the casket as the service is taking place. Once the service has finished, various things can happen to these flowers. Sometimes, flowers, such as roses will be taken from the funeral sprays and handed to mourners. These flowers will then be thrown into the grave once the casket has been lowered into the ground. The remaining flowers may then be placed at the graveside. In other circumstances, the casket sprays will be lay at the grave. When cremation takes place, the flowers are often gifted to local nursing homes or hospitals. The flowers from the spray may also be separated and given to family members to take home. Alternatively, the entire display may be taken home by the immediate family.

Wreaths are a traditional floral display at funerals. However, it may not always be practical to take a wreath to a funeral. Rather than take a wreath with you, it is customary to send the wreath to the funeral home before the funeral taking place. The wreath will then be placed with the other flowers that have been sent for the service. You can ask us to send the wreath directly to the funeral home or the home of the family of the deceased. However, in many instances, it is preferable to send the wreath directly to the funeral home. This makes transportation of the flowers much easier. Should you only be able to obtain a wreath on the morning of the funeral, arrive in good time and give the flowers to the funeral director.

It has been traditional for mourners to wear black to funerals. Black has been associated with mourning for several centuries. In other cultures, white and even bright colours, such as red, are worn by the family of the deceased. However, in most western cultures, it is usual for mourners to wear black. It is a sign of respect. There may be occasions when the family will ask those attending a funeral to wear bright colours. Alternatively, they may request mourners to wear the deceased’s favourite colour. If you have not been given specific instructions regarding what colour clothes to wear, it is safe to presume that you should wear black. If you are asked to wear a different colour, it is important to respect that request.

It may seem unusual to consider giving gifts for a funeral. At the actual funeral, gifts shouldn’t be given. However, sympathy flowers can be given to family members of the deceased as soon as you hear about the death. Sympathy flowers are a type of gift that shows you are thinking about the family at this sad time. The gift of time is one of the most precious things you can give to someone, who is grieving. The bereaved may be reluctant to cook, and therefore cooking meals for them is a thoughtful gesture. Being there to listen to them should they wish to talk is also an excellent gift. Sending flowers when you can’t be there in person is also a thoughtful thing to do. Flowers are a traditional gift that is seen as an appropriate way to express yourself at such as sad time as death.

Funeral wreaths are very common. Black wreaths are also sometimes put on the deceased’s family’s door to alert the community that the household has suffered a recent bereavement. It allows the community to be mindful of the mourning that is taking place. The wreath also allows friends and neighbours to bring food to the household and to offer help in their time of need. However, wreaths are also associated with other occasions. Christmas wreaths are a very common feature to see hanging on doors during the winter season. Yet, you will also see wreaths hanging on doors during other seasons too. These wreaths symbolise the changing seasons and embrace and celebrate each one. Wreaths make for pretty adornments on front doors and can put you in the mood for the current seasons and their associated celebrations.

If you haven’t bought flowers from our online store before, you may think that funeral flowers are expensive. Although flowers from a florist can cost more than flowers bought at a supermarket, they will be of superior quality. Florists are trained individuals who have the experience and qualifications required to arrange flowers to a high standard. This can mean that customers pay extra for this expertise and ensure that the flowers they receive are of a high standard. However, our funeral flowers have been created to ensure you can afford them. We can work with customers to create beautiful funeral displays that are within your budget. This allows you to create stunning funeral flowers without worrying about the cost. Take a look at our collection and discover how cheap funeral flowers can be.

Keeping flowers fresher for longer allows you to enjoy them more. Sometimes mourners will be given flowers to take home after the funeral. To keep them fresh, there are a few steps you can take. As soon as you return home, cut the stems of the flowers at an angle. This helps the flowers to absorb as much water as possible. Next, make your flower food. You can do this by combining a teaspoon of apple cider vinegar, and a teaspoon of sugar with the water you put into the vase. The water and flower food solution should be changed every other day. Doing so keeps the flowers fresher for longer. It is advisable to keep the flowers away from any sources of heat. This is because radiators and heaters can dry out the flowers quite quickly. Keep them out of direct sunlight also to minimise the chances of the flowers drying out.

Rather than a funeral, there are some instances when a memorial service is appropriate. A memorial service is similar to a funeral, but the remains of the deceased are not present. Much like a funeral, this occasion gives people the opportunity to mourn the passing of a friend or relative, and to celebrate their life. A memorial service may be more informal than a funeral, but it is good manners to treat the service with respect. One way to be respectful is to send flowers for the memorial service. Ensure the flowers are sent in good time for the service. This is so the memorial director can organise the flowers properly and place them where they need to be. Address the flowers to the family of the deceased, so the director knows which service the flowers are going to. Flowers for a memorial service may include traditional funeral flowers. Gladioli, chrysanthemums, and roses are perfect choices for memorial flowers.

Casket sprays are the flowers that lie on the top of the casket during the service. They are also sometimes referred to as coffin sprays. Casket sprays are chosen by the immediate family of the deceased. There are two main types of casket sprays. The first type is half casket sprays. As the name suggests, these flowers will lie across half the length of the casket. The other type is full casket sprays. These flowers will cover the length of the entire casket. The flowers used to create casket sprays depend on the wishes of the deceased’s family. Roses and lilies are usually chosen to be included. A lot of foliage and baby’s breath is also used to create a beautiful “padding” for the flowers.

Knowing what to write on a sympathy card can be difficult. You won’t want to say the wrong thing or upset the family of the deceased. Therefore, it is important to know what not to write on a sympathy card. Phrases such as “he/she had a good innings” may seem like a friendly thing to say but it isn’t. Just because a person was elderly when they died, this may not be of comfort to the person's family. Likewise, if the deceased died young, writing “he/she died too young” is not something to share with the family of the deceased. Another phrase you should not write is, “They are now in a better place”, or anything of that kind. If it is a spouse that has died, writing something like, “you will meet someone else in time” is very inappropriate. If you are stuck for something appropriate to say, a simple, “sorry for your loss” will suffice.

When you lose a family member, the time immediately following their death and leading up to their funeral is an extremely trying time. Those organising the funeral and burial will be very busy, and the arrangements can be very stressful. The best thing anyone can do is to offer practical and emotional support. This can be in the form of helping with funeral arrangements, such as letting people know the details of the service. It can also be helpful to bring cooked meals for the bereaved. This is because they may not feel like cooking or are simply too busy to spend time cooking meals. Flowers are also a lovely gesture. Although a very simple gift, flowers can brighten up the home, as well as showing that you are thinking of your friend or family member at this time. Flowers with a short note attached can express your feelings and let your friend know that you are there for them both practically and emotionally.

Despite death being something that happens to us all, it is still a sensitive subject. You may want to show a loved one that you are sorry for their loss but not know exactly how to do this. Bringing a gift can help to show you care. Flowers are a traditional gift to bring to friends and family. Bringing flowers to someone who has lost a loved one is a gesture that shows you are thinking about your friend or family member. In addition to flowers, you can also bring cooked food to their home. Cooked food is a practical gift that allows the deceased’s loved one to focus on organising the funeral and grieving. If you were also close to the deceased, it is a nice touch to bring photographs of the deceased, which their family may not have.

Sympathy flowers are a great way to show someone you care. These flowers should be sent as soon as you hear the news of the death. We make it very easy to place an order for sympathy flowers. However, if you haven’t had the opportunity to send flowers, you can also send them after the funeral. Flowers intended for the funeral should arrive at the place of service on the day of the funeral. It is important to be aware of the culture of the person to whom you intend to send flowers. This is because some religions, such as the Jewish faith, discourage the giving of flowers during the mourning period after death. Once you have established that it is appropriate for flowers to be delivered, choose from our amazing selection of sympathy and funeral flowers. You can also contact us to discuss your exact needs.

Unlike on other occasions, gifts are not usually given at a funeral. When someone loses a spouse, it is understandably upsetting. You may find it difficult to know how to show your sympathies. Although gifts as such are not appropriate, flowers are traditionally sent to the home of the deceased’s family to show sympathy. Rather than give gifts at the funeral, it is entirely appropriate to send thoughtful presents either before or after the service. Gifts such as a self-care basket filled with bath oils and creams, or a luxurious plant can be given. A photo album featuring photos of the couple is also a thoughtful gesture. A beautiful bouquet makes for a lovely gift. Choose the widow’s favourite blooms, or choose from our selection of sympathy flowers.

When you have lost a loved one, friends and family usually rally around and help you in any way they can. When this happens, you will want to show your appreciation. Don’t worry about the length of time that has passed since the funeral or when you received the gifts from loved ones. You can send thank you notes and gifts when the time is right for you. If you have noted or remember who sent what, it is appropriate to mention any gifts in the thank you note. For example, saying, “thank you for the beautiful flowers” is entirely appropriate. You can also express your gratitude with phrases, such as “Thank you for being there for me”, or “Your kindness at this time means so much to me”. You may even want to send a posy in thanks. We have a vast selection of thank you flowers which will show your appreciation perfectly.

You may be surprised to learn that not all religious beliefs find flowers to be appropriate gifts at the time of someone’s death. Before you send flowers to the bereaved, it is important to discover whether or not it is appropriate. In the Jewish faith, for example, it is more appropriate to send fruit baskets and food rather than flowers during their period of mourning. If sending flowers to a Mormon family, ensure they are not in the shape of a cross. As Islam focuses on simplicity, flowers may not be appropriate. It would therefore be wise to consult with the family before sending flowers. In Hinduism, the funeral takes place within 24 hours of death and mourners are not expected to bring any flowers or other gifts with them. Ten days after the funeral, another ceremony takes place, and this is the time to bring fruit rather than flowers. Christian faiths tend to encourage the giving of flowers for a funeral but some families may ask that a donation to charity be given instead.

The meaning of flowers at a funeral can differ greatly depending on the faith and culture of the people involved. It has been said that the tradition of placing flowers on graves began as a way to hide the odour of a decaying body. This was said to be especially true in warmer countries, and when the bodies would be left on display for a while. These days, flowers are given as a sign of respect and show how much the family cared for the person who has died. In some cultures, each flower has an individual meaning. For example, roses represent everlasting love, forget-me-nots, remembrance, and white lilies represent innocence, purity and rebirth. In Hawaii, floral garlands will be placed on the coffin and pictures of the deceased. It is also not unusual for a floral garland to be placed at a location that was important to the deceased.

When thinking of what to send to the family of the deceased, your immediate thought maybe flowers. However, flowers are not always appropriate to send in all religious beliefs. For example, in Judaism, the deceased is to be buried with 24 hours. Following the burial, there will be a period of mourning and during this nothing should be sent to the family, including flowers. After the period of mourning, gifts such as fruit baskets and food may be given. The Islam faith believes in living simply. Flowers may therefore be seen as a contradiction of this and shouldn’t be sent. Yet, flowers feature heavily in Christian faiths, such as Catholicism. Wreaths and floral crucifixes, as well as bouquets of funeral flowers, feature heavily at many Catholic funerals.

There are numerous differences between a funeral and a memorial service. During a funeral, the body will be present. A funeral is usually made up of four separate parts. First is the visitation, or viewing where family and friends gather the night before to celebrate the life of the deceased. Next is the funeral. Here the body will be present, and a service held. The service can be religious or non-religious. Following the funeral service, the body is buried, and there may be prayers or poems said at the graveside. Finally, a reception will be held, where family and friends will meet with food and drinks to remember the deceased. The most distinct difference between a funeral and a memorial is that the body is not present at a memorial service. This service may be held when the deceased has died and been buried abroad. Some choose to have a memorial service after a cremation service so that others can attend and celebrate the deceased’s life. A memorial service can be similar to a funeral in that there may be a eulogy, songs, prayers, and poems said.